Oh my god
oh my god
how is this possible omfg
But this is what is so confusing to me about the kind of woman Olivia is. She was his mistress, but I don’t think that’s the end of her.
But how do you come into a relationship as the man’s WILLING mistress, and then when he hurts you, by how he treated you, you want to now start setting rules. It just doesn’t always work out that way. Men on some level have to be “trained” how to treat us. If in the beginning you LET him treat you like the side-jawn, because that’s what you were… the fact that he fell in love with you, doesn’t change how he views you. You are the side-jawn STILL, he just happens to love you. You have set standards in the beginning, then he gets a chance to actually ”earn” you. I need for us as women to stop thinking that our p-u-s-s-y’s can cause a man to stay, or commit to us, because it wont. He can get that from anyone, but what can you give him, that binds him to you.
What Olivia is establishing is a new beginning, or a new precedent for the relationship. Yes, I was your side-jawn, Yes you treated me a certain way, and Yes we happened to fall in love in those roles. But, in order for that love to work, in order for me to come back and/or to stay, those roles have to change. We were what we were, and that worked at the time, but now that were in love the rules have change, if you want to accept that change, then prove it. Earn me now, as i am, earn me knowing my current expectations.
If it were Olivia running to him, begging him to be with her, expecting him to change because he loves her, then it would be stupid. It would be more than stupid, it would be desperate, and manipulative, and wrong. But it is he who initiates it, hes the one clinging to her. She doesn’t expect her p-u-s-s-y to make him stay, she expects him to treat her a certain way from now on if he wants it, and if he wants all of the other things she offers. Shes saying you cant have my p-u-s-s-y without getting my heart and mind and soul in the deal, and I will only accept a fair trade.
Just because you start a job as an intern doesn’t mean you have to stay as one. If you find you love the job and the company loves you back, you simply have to reestablish your goals and expectations from each other. You don’t just pour your heart into the role you want, you have to get hired for it. They won’t just start paying you a big salary when your still doing intern work. Both sides evaluate the situation, and both either accept there new roles.. or they don’t.
Janelle Monae performance of Q.U.E.E.N. on 106&Park (by BETNetworks)
Impromptu Janelle Monae performance. She was getting down…no shoes and all.
Guaranteed to make you smile. Loved it!
I.love.black.people!!! I love how proud she was of herself! Love Janelle.
girlllllllllll she was killing this
Gosh, I love her so much.
i want to save my money
but i also want to spend it